Farting

Hey peeps! I know. I'm stuck in this never ending bad habits of updating my blog regularly. Well, priorities. Speaking of priorities, you know what's coming up soon right? YES. Valentine's Day. The damn day that seems like a lot of singles dread, the time where people get all mushy and romantic, and the time where we just spend time with friends or family like any other regular day. 

I know some people might be spending these timing trying to find love before they get all "ERMAHGERD, I'M FOREVER ALONE" on that day. Not gonna lie, I was there at one point in my life. Because stupidity happens to everyone at one point in their life. But slowly I just continue whatever the fuck I normally do annually. I give away chocolates to everyone around me that I know. Also, I spend most of the time just being with friends or watch TV series at home and question the meaning of time. *cough*

If you read my October post, my aviator cupid apparently did his job and have kept him instead of my plan hiring another cupid from October last year, after me telling him off. Well done, I'm happier than ever now. I'm not one to shove things into lovely people's face here. But yea, at least here's a life update for you if you're interested (or not) anyways, since I've been MIA for some time. He's awesome and I love him.

MOVING ON... here's a comic. Hehe.

*More coughs* yea I freaking used farts as a metaphor and the quote I saw floating around the interweb inspired me to draw this comic. Why? In my opinion, farting is like the gateway to show "yup, very comfortable in this position already" in a relationship. Just that it's either you'll get Chuck Norris-ed by your partner after doing so or you just go "yea, that's a good one right there". Very romantic, right? *questioning myself after all these explanation*.... Nevermind. No shame!! Also, shut up with the 'girls don't fart' thing. I still don't get this term from people who don't understand human anatomy. You fart, I fart, everyone farts. Just shut up.

ANYWAYS, learn to love the day by loving yourself. If you think about it, it's not a big deal. Don't like people being around all mushy? Turn away OR be happy for them. There's no time to feel cynical and desire the love that others have. It's very contradicting. Also, don't force love. It will make both sides or even yourself only, feeling miserable. You'll absolutely know it when you have a reciprocal feelings with someone, just have to wait for the time to come. Very cliche, but if shit happens, move on anyway. Happiness starts from you, don't let a damn event take over these life burning questions you have and be hard on yourself. Love you, do you. 

It's just another day.

"A relationship is like a fart... If you force it, it's probably crap."

Abby Lim 

 

My Ideal Date

Oi! 

Valentine's Day coming on Friday! You plan out your date already or not?!

No worries, I could give you some ideas of what might be suitable for your date or for someone like me.

"Pfft. Might as well just say how I want MY date to be like."

No lah... haha

To me, if I were to be with someone who I love, spending time together every day is something to be appreciated anyways! You don't have to appreciate that ONE day only with the one you love. Valentine's Day is a day where you could do something special and memorable together. But hey, why not make EVERY moment special in every day with him/her? If I were to spend time having it special on Valentine's Day, I don't mind it all not being fancy shmancy. No need candle light dinner- just us hanging out.

Yea... I just want to do things together. That'll be worth the 'special day' and memories to be kept. I don't like going on a movie date, because I'm watching movie, not him. I don't like going out to a candle light dinner, because I don't like spending so much money for a damn dinner then go home even though I ain't the one paying. I just don't ask too much.

But I love roses though... so... HEHE

How are you spending your special day with him/ her?

Abby Lim

My Valentine's Day 2014

So, how are you planning to spend on your Valentine's Day since it is around the corner?

Are you single? Taken?

What do you do when you're single? Date with your girlies? Hang out with your bros? Eat and sleep?

What do you do when you're taken? Do you have a ritual? Simple, fun or romantic?

Let me tell you how I celebrate every year since grade 6. I ALWAYS buy boxes of chocolates and distribute to my classmates, schoolmates, friends, teachers and of course; my crush.

I remember I either distribute them in the morning before the lesson begun or during my lunch break. It's like an every year ritual to me since then and until back in college. It's fun and I love giving a little happiness :)

But then... Since I have a long break now, and don't really meet my friends because they are spreaded really far away from where I stay, I don't get to do this. :( </3

I guess I'll eat chocolates alone at home. TT^TT

Abby Lim